If you feel that love has passed and the relationship has become strained, this is not a reason to plan a divorce or go into all serious trouble, says Eva-Maria Zurhorst, a popular psychotherapist in Germany and around the world. Try to start with an honest and objective assessment of what you (and not your parents, society or friends) really expect from this relationship, and tell your partner about your aspirations. In Love Yourself... No Matter Who You're Married to, you'll learn what's stopping you from living happily with your chosen partner, how to stop falling into the same trap in relationships, and why the search for the perfect partner is fruitless until you love yourself.